How I Work

With all my patients, I begin by establishing trust and building rapport that lessens anxiety. This is a gradual and integrative process that is both structured and in the moment; I gauge the appropriate pace based on the person’s specific needs. From there, I employ a variety of skills that teach new behaviors, replacing old “default” tendencies through practical physical application, coaching, and education.

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Who I Help

I work with men and women, gay, straight, bisexual or transgender. I assist patients in overcoming a range of issues, including:

  • Premature ejaculation
  • Erectile dysfunction
  • Late virgins
  • Social/sexual shyness
  • Performance anxiety/lack of confidence and inexperience
  • Sexual shame
  • Trauma and disassociation from sexual abuse
  • Inhibited Sexual Desire (ISD)
  • Body image

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What I Offer

There are three ways to engage my services:

  • A twelve-week surrogate partner program designed for those looking to do in-depth work. These are conducted in-person in New York City.
  • One-on-one phone consultations for people who cannot travel to New York.
  • Intimacy workshops aimed at helping people better understand and communicate with their partner.

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How to Get Started

The first step is to email me at to set up a free, 15-30 minute phone consultation to determine if what I offer will be beneficial for you. Please know that anonymity and confidentiality are the cornerstones of my work and this unique therapeutic model. Your privacy will be respected, and protected.

If we determine that the surrogate partner program is the best course of treatment, I will send you a “terms of agreement” email and, once responded to, we will determine the date for our first session. I require email confirmations at least 24 hours before each session.

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Surrogate Partner Program
The cost of the twelve-week program is $2,100 with a payment plan of $700 (cash) paid at the first, fifth and ninth sessions. Any four individual sessions (paid for via the payment plan in advance) must be utilized within two months from the day of payment. There are no refunds.

In addition, I offer a one-time, in-person consultation for $175 for those who feel they need it before entering into the full program. It is a stand-alone session that cannot be applied to the cost of the twelve-week program.

One-on-one phone consultations for people who cannot come to New York are $175/hour. Longer sessions can be accommodated.

Intimacy workshops vary depending on the number of participants and the travel involved.

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